Weather: So lovely and warm the past few days. Rainy as well, but we need it. (Midwestern thing. We say this every time it rains.)
Got my first dose of the Covid vaccine this past Tuesday: Moderna, even though I would have been fine with any of them. Haven’t suffered any side effects other than a bit of a sore arm and some fatigue. Worth it.
Please get vaccinated so we can finally get out of this quarantine hellscape. I know it’s going to still be some time until we are able to get back to less fraught interactions, but it’s a big step in the right direction. I’m still bitter over where we could have been at this point, but that’s a different post. And requires a lot of salty language I just don’t have time for right now.
I consider the vaccine one of my few small victories of late, mostly because it symbolizes a movement forward. Stagnancy has been a big problem for me and a lot of other people in my circle. Not because the will isn’t there, but for one reason or another (mostly Covid), the resources haven’t been there, or the players had scheduling or travel issues. Creativity has kind of gone in one of two directions: either exploding or flat out dying on the vine.
Trying to get a book written when you’re in a constant state of anxiety is a non-starter for me. Add in a foggy brain when trying to concoct mosaic designs or jewelry… you see where I’m going with this. I picked up crocheting to add to my stitch skills (along with cross-stitch needlework) but that’s become more therapeutic hobby than anything else.
So, small victory number two this week was finally getting my craft room/office organized. It still needs work, but I’ve conquered the nesting that was starting to happen. I can see the top of my crafting table and my filing cabinet. My desk is still in progress. It’s amazing how much easier it is to think and plan when you aren’t surrounded by clutter.
I’m starting to reach the headspace where I want less things around me and more space to create. I’m finding that value is coming in amount of time and what things mean to me. It took a long time to realize that I was holding onto things that were only valuable to me as something I could show to someone else. Like “look! I have this [book, item, picture etc].” to which they’d respond “that’s so cool!” and I could ride that validation for months. But most of my friends and family have seen the stuff and a lot of it is sitting collecting dust, not getting any use, or giving me any kind of satisfaction. In fact, I’ve started resenting its presence as a dust collector. Maturity? Anxiety? Boredom? Who knows. All I know is it’s not doing me any good just sitting on a shelf or stuck in a closet. So off to donation it goes, so someone else can give it some attention or love.
Small victories are sometimes better than the big ones in that they don’t come with as much work or sacrifice, yet give you a moment of satisfaction that you aren’t just standing still or spinning your wheels. We like to praise people to great levels when they accomplish something big, like ran a marathon or completed a college degree and yes, both those things are admirable and worth the compliments. But sometimes, when you’ve spent a week on the couch, depressed, or overwhelmed, and the dust and clutter is starting to seem insurmountable, sometimes just getting the coffee table cleared off and the dishes into the dishwasher can seem like crossing the finish line.
On the creative front, I’ve printed out several of my recent manuscripts in progress and I’m attempting to mark them up with a pen, rather than trying to squelch my easy distractions online. If I can get through a few pages each day, it feels like progress. If I can get some new scenes committed to paper and then transcribed into Scrivener, it seems like I might actually get the ball rolling again. I’m starting to get some design ideas for mosaics again. And I’ve moved my jewelry fixings into the craft room from the basement. It feels like with spring finally rearing its weary head, my malaise is evaporating. It feels a little like hope and possibility.
And sometimes…sometimes, that is all the taste of victory I need to get myself back into the battle. Bigger victories will come, but for now, I’ll keep grabbing a toehold where I can and leveraging myself upward.
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